How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 06:56
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Ask yourself:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Procrastinates a lot.
Do girls ever miss their first love?
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Does not procrastinate.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why should the law care about what I do behind closed doors?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Paris Baguette: The Korean bakery that wants to make croissants less French - BBC
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How do you take your erotic photos and how do you choose the poses?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
That's it for today.
What transforms the philosophical intellect?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
What do you say after "Hi" when chatting?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why does my private parts itch so much during certain periods?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
What I need from you?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Losing 20kg is a goal.